Good marriages don’t just happen!! 4

1. There is nothing that threatens the security of a wife than the thought of another woman competing for the attention and affection of her husband. Nothing is more painful. Nothing is more disrespecting. Nothing is more insulting. Nothing is more belittling and degrading.

2. Marriage flourishes when the couple works together as a team; when both husband and wife decide that winning together is more important than keeping score. Good marriages don’t just happen. They are a product of hard work.

3. Your children are watching you and forming lasting opinions on love, commitment, and marriage based on what they see in you. Give them hope. Make them look forward to marriage.

4. Husbands: The reason why other women look attractive is because someone is taking good care of them. The grass is always green where it is watered. Instead of drooling over the green grass on the other side of the fence, work on yours and water it regularly. Any man can admire a beautiful woman, but it takes a true gentleman to make his woman admirable and beautiful.

5. When a husband puts his wife first above everyone and everything except God, it gives his wife the sense of security and honor that every wife hungers for.

6. A successful marriage doesn’t require a big house, a perfect spouse, a million dollars or an expensive car. You can have all the above and still have a miserable marriage. A successful marriage requires honesty, undying commitment and selfless love at the center of it all.

7. Pray for your spouse every day; in the morning, in the afternoon and at evening. Don’t wait until there is a problem. Don’t wait until there is an affair. Don’t wait until something bad happens. Don’t wait until your spouse is tempted. Shield your spouse with prayer and cover your marriage with the fence of prayer.

8. The people you surround yourself with have a lot of influence on your marriage. Friends can build or break your marriage; choose them wisely.

9. One spouse cannot build a marriage alone when the other spouse is committed to destroying it. Marriage works when both husband and wife work together as a team to build their marriage.

10. Don’t take your spouse for granted. Don’t take advantage of your spouse’s meekness and goodness. Don’t mistake your spouse’s loyalty for desperation. Don’t misuse or abuse your spouse’s trust. You may end up regretting after losing someone that meant so much to you.

11. Beware of marital advice from single people. Regardless of how sincere their advice may sound, most of it is theoretical and not derived from real life experiences. If you really need Godly advice, seek it from God-fearing, impartial and prayerful mature couples whose resolve has been tested by time and shaped by trials.

12. Dear couple, Don’t underestimate the power of the tongue on your marriage. The tongue has the power to crush your marriage or build it up. Don’t let the Devil use your tongue to kill your spouse’s image, self-confidence, and aspirations. Use your tongue to build up your marriage and bless and praise your spouse…

A post on Facebook by Michelle Obama…

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5 Things That Make Men Commit 1218

Today, I’m going to reveal five things that will edify you about what men find extremely attractive about women and what you can do that makes men commit. Let’s start with the basics. Below are the two categories in which men can be divided into-

#1 is the dream guy usually not found even with the lantern in under the full moon. He is completely in love with his girlfriend, precisely speaking from every bit and pieces of his body and soul — he treats her like a princess born to be loved and pampered. And as I said, a rare find. So, if you have already found the guy, this article might not really help you but will surely make you smile.

#2 is the kind of guy who can be found anywhere even in the darkness waiting to be found. Basically, the category of men that don’t really care being single— he is the one who doesn’t believe in being in the relationship.

Now, having said that, I would like to further notify you of the fact that while it might appear that #2 are the ones with lion’s share, however, the statistics suggest otherwise. As per a study done in 2013, it was found that 95 percent of men openly admit to commitment. But here’s the catch, the views on commitment differ.

So, brace yourself before I introduce you with a harsh reality.

When he says, “I’m just not ready for a relationship right now,” what he wants to say is, “I’m not ready for a relationship with you.” This points toward the fact that the moment he meets someone he thinks is his cup of coffee, he will readily commit to her because he doesn’t want to risk losing her. Well, so far, you might have understood that men are not commitment freaks but they have a code that needs to be broken.  Don’t you worry! Help me solve this problem for you.

Mentioned below are the five things you need to do to make a guy commit his love for you

  1. Respect Him

Respect is a strong virtue! It has the power to reignite a relationship long after the flames of love and lust have crackled. Many men tend to fall for a woman who respects them over the ones who loves them. It’s on you to figure out the good things in your man and understand why you respect him and express the same to him every now and then. Men, unlike women, are not really flattered by words. I mean, they do like to hear some good words but they don’t sing to their souls.

  1. Let Him Desire You

Ladies, isn’t this exactly what we want? Men are not as conflicting as you think them to be. They are humans and humans crave to be desired. Desire is the game of opposites attract. Make him crave for you. Kiss him unexpectedly, give him lustful stares and leave him wanting you more. He’ll crave you and then he will catch you; he’ll lust for you and then you’ll surrender to him. This is the way men release their tension.

  1. Make Him Feel Secure

Men too, like to lay down their psychological defenses and relax, but it doesn’t happen often. You need to make him feel secure around you. You should give him space where he can show his weaknesses and vulnerabilities to you. This can happen only when you both can trust each other. Express to him that you won’t be judgmental about his choices or actions. Tell him that you’ll always stand by his side when others won’t.

  1. Challenge Him!

Men love challenges. Let me repeat. Men, just, love challenges! Men are competitive and they see challenges as the path to achieve success. This requires you to confront him when you think he’s wrong and not letting him fall when he’s right. Even the very thought of you being able to confront him will challenge him.

  1. Make Him Feel Happy

If you can keep a man happy, he will never leave you. So, the final step is to learn how to keep your man happy. The first thing that you need to understand here is, be yourself. Act crazy, but not insane.

So, now that you are familiar with all the tips and tricks, what are you waiting for? Love him like you do!

Thunderous Thirty !!!! 2001

When we are in our early twenties, we spend most of the time figuring out what we want from our lives. And by the time we enter the late twenties, we get hit with the harsh reality that life has changed at a rapid rate. If you are on the verge of turning 30 very soon or have already stepped in your 30’s, then here are few things you should know about an age that is officially called adulthood:

  1. You Stop Giving F**K About What Others Think!

Yes, you heard it right! Don’t get offended but this is the truth, now that you have attained plenty of first-hand life experiences, you stop getting affected by “Log Kya Kahenge”, instead you develop that attitude which says, “Logo Ka Kaam Hai Kehna”. You just don’t have the patience and energy to worry about what and how people will react to your every little decision. So, here you are free to share your opinions and ideas.

  1. You comprehend some things are not in your control

Once you turn 30, you get an understanding that everyone in this world is not here to please you and vice versa. You do try to change things and some habits in others for their good, but after a certain number of tries, you automatically realize that few things are not in your control.

  1. You Learn to Ignore 

At this age, you bear one important understanding or thing in your mind, “Ignorance is Bliss. You realize that there are certain individuals and things that aren’t as significant as you thought they were when you were in your 20’s. Nor do others behavior and actions have any effect on you.

  1. You Start Owning your Actions

While you turn 30, you grasp that you have started taking the responsibility and ownership of every decision and action you take. Then let it be on profession front or personal life Be it something you are proud of or something that went wrong.

  1. You Do What You Think Is Right

This is the time of your life when you take control of your life, you start holding the reins of your life in your hands. Thus, you don’t seek anyone’s approval for things that matter. You prefer to consult your inner voice and do as per your wish. You don’t fear the repercussions and are confident to face failure too.

  1. You Learn to Let Go

By the time, you turn 30 you understand that life doesn’t come with a sure shot guarantee of achieving success in every phase of life, professionally or personally. You realize that it’s okay to let go things for your inner peace.

Thirty is a new beginning of your life, you develop many qualities as well discover many amazing and wonderful things about yourself and people around you.