She is sweet, strong woman with undoubtedly, good looks and attractive personality. She motivates many other business women….. how to be a good manager, good listener to clients and have perfect marketing and sales skills. She owns a renowned boutique in the town, that has taken a decade of her hard work to build this name.
But this is just what we see. What we don’t see is that from inside she is broken, harassed and in a bad relationship with a man whom she met a few years back. In spite of no approval from her parents for love marriage because of different religion and caste, she got married to him in the court of law. Her decision turned unfortunate soon, as the love of her life was not only unemployed but had a different opinion about life, sex and women.
She was not only humiliated and harassed physically, mentally, sexually but also financially. After the birth of her son, she thought her husband’s mother and sisters and even he himself would change. But her blind love story made her living a nightmare with an unemployed husband until she with help of her parents decided to start a small boutique.
Since then, her diligence and toil had borne many fruits in her boutique business but for her husband and mother in law, she was just a slave worker, who would work the whole day at home as well as boutique and please him at night as his mistress. In ten years, she was earning about one lakh rupees for her husband and his family, who would never respect her or help her in any work in home or boutique. Her husband not only was lazy, violent but drug addict too. When he got to know about her little savings, he decided to shift to Canada alone with that money in search of employment.
Now, she was double minded, to let him or not. Because she still loved him, somewhere and wanted the father of her son to stay close to her. But that selfish man went away and never contacted her, leave apart sending money as a help.
She was even more traumatized and felt helpless but her son was a big motivation for her. Time passed by and after few months, she came in touch with this new guy through a common friend, who fell in love with her instantly. This new guy was also married, but could not find a soulmate in his partner from 15 years of marriage. So this new guy became like an understanding partner in her life. Soon she started dating him and enjoying his company.
Time passed by and after few months, she came in touch with this new guy through a common friend, who fell in love with her instantly. This new guy was also married, but could not find a soulmate in his partner from 15 years of marriage. So this new guy became like an understanding partner in her life. Soon she started dating him and enjoying his company.
They used to meet each other every fortnight and spend quality time together. They are supporting each other emotionally and physically. Life got a new meaning for both. Their friendship gave them what they were longing for in their marital relationship.
Though this new guy wants to divorce his present wife and start a new life with her, after the unsuccessful and horrifying experience, she does not want to marry anyone. She only wants to continue his friendship and support and nothing more.
Now my question here is….Is this wrong?
She surely has the liberty to live her life freely with somebody who understands as well as love him. Though the society will not approve this ever and she will get all types of names possible…’ Badchalan( characterless) etc etc but whats the point to become a ‘Sati Savitri’ for the kind of husband she had?
She wants to live in her own way now focussing on future of his son. So, what’s wrong with it?
For me, Go on girl… Jee le apni zindagi!
But what about you? I know few of you must be having an awful feeling for her coz what she is doing is so called ‘Unethical & Unacceptable’ as a married woman. But do you have better suggestions for her??