The Incomplete Love 109

Is it really painful to see your inamorata marrying someone else questioned her mind to her heart? Sitting alone in a coffee shop, holding her tears she is lost in his memories. The warmth of the coffee reminds her of the coldness in his heart. The ring on her finger proves that she is still into him.

“How can he marry someone else? How can he brush off these six years? How can he turn his face away from me, from my memories and just move on, how? Is it my fault that my family is not agreeing? Can’t he realize that am also waiting? I rejected so many matches for him. Can’t he turn down their proposal? Was I nothing to him? His mother had put her heart out just once that she was totally jaded of waiting for me and he decided to quit. Was my love so weak? I am a 30 years old woman and still ready to wait for him forever.

My parents are not keeping well but still, I stood by my love. I respect my parents, I love them a lot but still, I was hurting them for him. I have never made them cry but this time they cried, all because of my foolishness. I was trying to make them understand that there is no harm in marrying a guy of another caste. He proved me wrong. What wrong I did? Why did he leave me?”

This time her crestfallen eyes couldn’t hold back the tears that were dying to roll down.

“I wish she forgives me,” he said sipping coffee at his home. “I had to do this to her, we can’t stay this way forever. Her parents won’t agree and I know she will leave me anytime if her family would pressurize her. But I can’t run away from one more fact that she has turned 30 and if she will not marry now she will not find a good match and I know her parents won’t let me marry her. I did this for her happiness. If not today, am sure tomorrow she will understand me. I know she hates me now. I lost her forever. Her

Her caste was different and her parents were determined that they will not get me married to her. I can’t see her fighting with everyone for me. She loves her parents and because of me, their best daughter became the worst daughter for them. What if anything happens to someone, I won’t be able to handle this. I’ll regret all my life. She will understand me one day. I wish she finds someone soon. “His mind justifies his insecurities to his broken heart.

Nutshell….??? The love remains incomplete……….

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My Life… My Rules..!! But is Your Life Yours Alone? 695

It’s become quite a common line among most teenagers every time they were questioned or been advised on how they move with things in life. I have come across so many positive lines and articles that says your life is yours alone and no one will step up for it. It is only in your own hands that how you rule it.

These things are true, but what they mean is entirely different from the way it is used among the younger generations today. The way the trend is going, many like to say the famous line as “My life, my rules!” bluntly without thinking the consequences and the situation. Yes, our life is for us to live but we must not forget that our life is linked with many others living around us. People who care for us and who love us.

Every time I hear someone tell me it’s their life and they like to do things as however they want, it makes me feel sad because people just don’t know what life is all about.

Do you still think your life is yours alone? Here are a few reasons that explain why it is not-

1. Your life matters to your family

The moment you were born you become a part of someone’s life. Your parents and people who may love you. As you grow older there are lot many others who walk in your life. Some stay and some move on. But is your life alone? No! Your life is linked to many others who love to see you happy. We need to give something to get what we need.

When people decide to take off their life, they do not realize that they do not actually have the complete rights to do that. Because they fail to understand that it is easy for the person who dies, but it is difficult for the person who lives knowing that the one person who he or she loved most is not there with them anymore. So, I strongly deny that your life is not yours alone.

2. We live in a community

A person who tells you that he or she does not care about what the society thinks is the first person who is usually lying. People say that to convince themselves that they do not care, in truth they actually care. It is a reverse mechanism. When you are faced with rejection or some kind of negative responses to something or by someone, immediately many try to think that they do not care. Every human craves for recognition and to be identified for their potential. Instead of showing ignorance, it’s better to face criticism in a constructive way, After all, it is the same society which is going to give you all the things that you desire to be happy. Your existence is linked with the society you live in.

3. Following rules may help sometime

Agreed that some rules are baseless, but many are useful for us. Some rules are made for our own safety and protection. Most often the younger generation becomes agitated when they are restricted to many things. The first thing what we need to recognize is anything too much is not good. It is not the problem of having rules instead it is the problem of not knowing how to deal with them.

4. It is selfish

When someone says it’s my lifestyle, do not meddle, it sounds too prude and selfish to me. There are some people who try to be an unnecessary part of our lives when we are not interested. Some are even toxic. However, there are different ways to make sure that you keep such people at bay. But the way people go on with a rant of “My life! My rules” seems totally a selfish attitude. Sometimes it is also an escapism of laziness in order to avoid taking responsibilities.

We, humans, are social creatures and we need interactions with other people around us whether we like it or not, to survive. We may choose not to care but there are people who care for us more than we like to acknowledge. Hence, do not ever forget that your life is not yours alone. Sometimes we live by rules made by someone else just to keep the people we love happy even though it may not be something we wanted. Trust me, the result will always keep us happy in the end too. Life is to share and live together and care for one another. Embrace it, Enjoy it and Love it with everyone else in it.

 

Daughter’s Day Special: Enjoy this song to feel what she wants to say to you! 1127

This Daughter’s Day, Gallinukkad appeals to each parent of a daughter that now is time to change your mindset so that your daughters are raised rightly. Don’t suppress your daughter’s freedom, let her raise voice against any wrong happening to her physically and emotionally, make her career conscious and financially independent, hear and respect her opinions; don’t set boundaries for her, let her decide for herself. If you stand for her today, she will stand for herself and her daughter tomorrow.

And to the parents of a son, It’s time to teach your boys that even she is a complete individual, not just the other half.

Enjoy this beautiful song to feel what she wants to say to you!

Happy Daughter’s Day to all!