There is no comparison between a stay at home and a working mother 2

I have been reading a lot these days about Mira Rajput and her comments regarding working women and about those who leave their kids and go out to work. Well, my lovely lady, you fail to understand the fact that women who are working out are not only balancing work and home but they undergo huge emotional turbulence.

It’s good to know that you care a lot about your little one but does that anyways make ladies going out for work, loves less.  I vehemently oppose this and what brings me to write this is to show my gesture of appreciation and respect to all the women who are either at stay at home mom or are working moms.

And when I am talking about working women, I count every damn woman on this earth, whether she is a labour, or a servant, a babysitter, a manager or even a CEO; every lady on this earth who is making an effort to grow is a working woman.  I think a bit differently, firstly I don’t want to compare a stay at home mother and a working mom and the reason is very simple,  you compare two things when you find it different and I think that both the genre of women are working in one form or another.

A lady who is at home whole day, dedicating her career, her life, and her dreams to live and shape the dreams of her child needs no comparison but just appreciation; at the same time, a lady who goes out to work is also making a sacrifice, she has also nurtured a life within her for 9 months and wants to be an eyewitness to the growth graph of her child but just because she is also focusing on her career doesn’t make her any less of a mother.

Working or not should be the choice of a woman and not the deciding factor or litmus test for her love for her child. The reason I am able to state all this is because I too have been a working woman and I still am, but I am working from home and the reason I chose to be one is because I want my child to learn that a woman is capable of doing it all and that too without complaining. I have many friends who are working, they go out and their whole day goes thinking how their child would be at home. The choice of a working woman or a stay at home is not an easy one. Our circumstances and situations make us choose what we have; it should not demean us or derogate our efforts.

A piece of advice to all the think-alike Mira Rajput (with no offense), we should stand for each other, the reason women are so possessive about their career and goals is because they have worked hard to earn it in life, the situation of a woman in our country has never been easy and with so many difficulties women are trying to survive the battle of the fittest and if they have emerged as a winner, I think they should stand by it.

We ladies should be a building block for each other, if someone is trying to take a stand, we should support it. A housewife, on the other hand, dedicates her entire life to make her family stand because she is laying the foundation stone for the future; her children are going to be the building blocks of the future society.

Stop Comparing, Start Appreciating !!!

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Dating is cooler than a Relationship….Do you think so?? 1036

I am 101 % every one of you is going to agree with me on this – Dating is quite fun!! As it involves meeting new people, exploring new places with your gf/bf, the excitement of a new bond, those butterflies in the stomach. But during all this, somewhere deep down lays a sense of insecurity. Insecurity of losing your special someone because dating is not synonyms to the relationship. Where relationships have the commitment, dating doesn’t follow any such decree.

One of the most significant reasons that make dating cooler than relationships is commitment. It’s not easy to not make a connection and still be together. Many people think that settling down or being in a relationship can be boring, actually, they consider it as ‘Old school’. But you know what, if you never come under this league, perhaps, you will never experience the beauty of being in a relationship.

Relationships are not meant to be boring! In fact, being in a relationship makes your life beautiful and evolves you into a better individual.

Below are few reasons that’ll make you wonder how being in a relationship makes you a better person!

  1. A Relationship Rejuvenates You

Love is a very powerful feeling it makes us do things for others which we wouldn’t do for ourselves. A relationship changes you in a better person, your partner brings out the best in you. With your partner’s love and affection, they turn you into a better individual. Being in a relationship fills you with new hopes and aspirations.

  1. It changes your Attitude towards life

When single we usually only think about ourselves, act stubborn and resentful towards people and situations. But being in a relationship makes us think rationally and lowers down our ego and arrogance. It also invokes the sense of responsibility and a better understanding of life which we generally lack.

  1. You Start Feeling Good

The best part of being in a relationship is you start feeling happy and good about everything around. There is no space for stress or reasons to be depressed as two of you are always there to support each other and work towards the happiness of one another. Here, I would like to mention that this is the case of positive relations which are not forced.

  1. You Learn to Adjust

Every relationship demands adjustment, compromise, and sharing. When you get involved with someone the first thing which happens is you start adjusting according to your partners likes and dislikes. Slowly you start sharing your living space, you start making plans together and what not. being in a relationship teaches you how to express your love and care and how to keep your partners needs first.

  1. You Explore new things

The plus point of being in a relationship is your world expands, by this I mean you get to know about new things from you from a partner. You develop new likes and hobbies. You get exposed to a different kind of music, movies and if you both like reading then, books too ;). You also get a brand-new family and set of friends and cousins to hang out with.

  1. You feel Strong

Difficulties are part of life, we all face ups and downs, difficult situations in our lives. But having a partner by your side gives you the strength to fight any battle of life. Knowing that your partner has your back will give you the courage to go through any circumstances and come out with more positivity and belief that with that your partners help you can fight anything and everything

All relationships go through hell, only the real ones get through It …So, no matter how many girls or boys you have dated, there’ll come a time when you’ll realize the meaning of settling down with that special someone!

What Nirbhaya wants to appeal today for Praduman!! 4543

They ripped my body…

They ripped my dignity…..

They ripped my dreams…..

They ripped my life…………..and they are still alive…!!

If you remember me I am Nirbhaya, a girl who was brutally raped and left to die on 16th December’12’s night. I know it’s an old story now but I am here today because my soul is in pain and tormented once again…

I am suffocated, flustered and frightened too with news of Praduman brutally murdered and a little girl of 5yrs raped in their respective schools with in three days. My intestines were pulled outside my body and his throat was slit wide open….Oh Gosh!! You can’t imagine the pain and fear….Dictionary doesn’t and cannot have a word to describe what we went through..!

Okay, you said I was out for a movie at night… I was wrong and it was my mistake etc etc but I want to ask you today was Praduman also wrong in using a washroom of his school?? Was that little girl in a school uniform was wrongly dressed and out at a wrong time??

Please answer me……this goes to all those who are sitting on administrative chairs and are just concerned about how to remain seated on those positions forever. My question is to the lawmakers, to the ministers, to the officers….to the PM of this country.

Why can’t you frighten these monsters these devils like they frightened us? Me, Praduman…..&…&…

Yes, they frightened us to the extent that our souls are still trembling. Traumatize them…torture them as they did to us.

Where are you, the honorable human rights people?? Why don’t you stand with my and their and each such parent who has lost everything in their lives with us?

When you say ‘Human Rights’ its is for humans not for these demons. NO rapists have human rights…..

Give tortures ..give them trauma to the extent that each man with such sick mentality should get a shiver before even thinking of any such crime. Scare their souls…scare them to the hell…Do it NOW..NOW!

You named me…Nirbhaya(one who never fears)…let me tell you today…I was scared..really scared and I am scared today also. I am scared for each fellow girl…for each child out there…I am scared!

You made me celebrity over night. You named funds after me. No need of all this, if you really want to do something make your laws strict & deadly for rapists and molesters. No one should dare to touch anybody without his/her consent. Make my country safe for all women…for little ones. PLEASE!

Do what Yemen administration did to a child rapist and murderer. Punish them publicly…punish them as brutally as they were with us. It is my last appeal to you people.

Do it for me…for Praduman..for….for….

Do it so that there will be no more Nirbhayas and Pradumans…EVER!