Things Women Should Stop Giving a Damn About 71

Hey, Gorgeous Ladies! It’s time we abandon a few bad habits or botherations, I must say. What I mean is to carry a ‘Who cares’ attitude for what others will think about you. Let’s for once, just once stop giving a damn and live the way we want to. Because it’s high time we, the women stop giving a F**K about what others will think about us. So, I am listing a few such habits that I started with to be a carefree individual, you can follow or choose your own to start with-

Here’s a list of a few such habits that I started with to be a carefree individual, you can follow or choose your own to start with-

So, I am listing a few such habits that I started with to be a carefree individual, you can follow or choose your own to start with, but believe me, it helps to shed that weight off your mind.

1. Perfecting Hair and Makeup

Give up the idea of getting that perfect winged eyeliner, it really doesn’t matter if you can’t make a high bun or end up smudging your mascara, just wear your hair and makeup you feel comfortable in.

2.What Brand You’re Wearing

It really doesn’t matter what brand you’re wearing, whether your clothes are a limited edition or the ones you got from your elder sister. As long as you feel happy, comfortable and beautiful, does that price tag really matter?

3. Wearing those high heels to look tall

If you’re wearing high heels every day just to add a few inches to your height, stop doing it, there is no point stumbling around in pain. You’ll surely look beautiful in flats too. Wearing those ridiculously uncomfortable shoes just because they look good ….is not worth it!

4. Worrying About What Others Will Think

This should be the very first thing you must stop giving a damn about. It’s your life live it the way you want, don’t change your lifestyle for others to like you. In the end what matters most is how you think about yourself. And by the way, a tigress doesn’t lose her sleep over the opinion of the sheep. Does she?

5. Thinking about How Many “LIKES” You Got on Facebook/Instagram

Stop that stupid obsession about how many likes you got on a recent selfie you posted. The number of likes doesn’t decide how beautiful you’re.  Don’t let social media change your self-image and just ‘Be You’, the world will adjust.

6. Trying to Have That So-Called “Perfect Body”

As mentioned in the previous point, embrace yourself. You’re perfect the way you look. Don’t stress yourself in seeking something which doesn’t matter.

7. Stop Comparing Your Life

Hey! that’s really important that you stop victimising yourself by comparing yourself to others…Why am I  still single? Why am I only stuck in a mediocre paying job?….etc etc etc. Just don’t do this to yourself. There’s no harm in putting efforts to make situations better but cribbing is a big No NO….

8. Being Embarrassed

You can’t avoid such situations where you go grocery shopping at the local store in your yoga pants and meet your boss on the way. It’s okay, don’t dwell on it, everyone faces such situations and that’s perfectly normal. No need to feel embarrassed.

9. How Many Calories You Consume

It’s good to maintain a healthy diet to stay in good shape. But, it’s not necessary to become so conscious that you start calculating calories in whatever you eat. I used to 😉 but now I don’t :).

I am feeling really light by following above. You too give it a try.

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How I was Duped? 181

This happened many years back, probably in 2011, early months of my marriage. Till date, I still feel ashamed of my naivety. However, I would like to share my story with you all, hoping to warn, if you find yourself in any such a situation. Although I doubt anyone can be as stupid as me, but opportunist and cheaters are found everywhere. So be warned and be careful.

It was one of those busy and hot summer days and I was totally engrossed in my work at home when suddenly the door bell rang. I’ am always careful not opening the door to strangers and so opened the window to check who it was. There was a salesman who wanted to do a survey on a new toothbrush that was introduced into the market. He said he will give me three brand new toothbrush for free and he will be back after a week. I am supposed to use the brush and answer few questions for his survey. Along with that, he will also give me a ticket with a number which has a lucky draw. There were different prizes and if my ticket wins he will get the prizes along with him the next week. All in all, I thought there is no harm in taking those sealed brushes with the ticket. I took them and kept it aside and forgot all about it.

After a week, the same man appeared in front of my door again. I remembered him very well. He said I have won some gifts worth 800/- Rs items and he showed them all to me. He asked me for the ticket. I searched all around the house but in vain and told him that I have lost the lucky draw slip. He told me that there is another customer who have won a refrigerator and those people have shifted their house. He can give that lucky draw slip to me along with the other gifts that I have won and all I need to do is pay him 600/- Rs and I will be getting the refrigerator too. He said he will also give me his phone number and his office number if I need to check. For a moment I could not believe my luck and got carried away. For more than a year I was talking to my husband about buying a new refrigerator as ours was an old model and desperately wanted one.

Now, this man tells me that I would be getting a refrigerator of a lucky draw, was like a God sent a gift and I did not think further. Though I was doubtful, the man convinced me that I need to pay first as he needs to report about the changes in his office to send the refrigerator to my address. Finally, I gave in and paid him 600 Rs and took the other gifts. He said he will be back within an hour. Once he left, I had to finish some work. Later when I got free, I checked the other free items that he gave me and found them all used items and some of them broken though the packs were new. Then is when I realized of foul play and called the phone numbers he gave me. One of the numbers went to a gold shop and the other to a placement consultancy. I realized that I was duped by the salesman and there is no refrigerator on its way reaching our home.

I consoled myself thinking that I was lucky enough that the man did not hit me on my head and steal the house. I learned my lesson and since then I am always careful with people around who wants to sell something to us.

The True Face of a Resume!! 310

I am not sure how many of you believe in a resume but I for one, have never believed in one. It may sure tell us the educational details or some other information which a person can directly tell while in an interview. Sure it saves a lot of time, yet I wonder why an interviewer asks them again though. Such are the times our minds keep screaming “It’s already written in my CV, can’t you see it, sir/madam?” Oh! Well, our face might be deceptive at that time. A resume can never tell you so many things and a lot many times talented people may lose a chance of meeting their destiny or companies may not be able to hire good and talented people just because their resumes did not fancy the interviewer’s requirement. Given the chance to write one cool resume, what would you write? Here is mine.

Objective

To find a job that actually pays without asking me to work more than my limits, giving plenty of free time to relax and have a word with family and friends while I catch up with some of the work.

Personal Skills

a) I might be the first – in walking out of the office doors at the evening

b) The best talking and chatting companion you can ever find

c) cat-like reflexes- The moment you see me and decide there is something wrong in my work and needs discussion, Meow… I am not there.

d) I can sleep well any time of the day and anywhere.

e) I have good communication skills. By phone, by SMS, by group chats, by emails, and also through other Internet facilities that you provide.

f) I know my way around MS Word.

Experience

I am well experienced in any kind of arguments and can fairly win. I have a good experience in eating all kind of tasty vegetarian foods. I have good experience in trying to control gaining weight. I can tell you well as how to write a CV, just like this one. I am a good listener you see because I usually don’t try too hard to listen to what other person is talking. I am extremely good at researching on Google for information. Am a good dreamer, as I have spent most of my time in day-dreaming.

Education

I can read and write. I am educated enough to understand the basic languages ( ie., Hindi, English, Kannada and so on).

I have fairly got through a degree without trying too hard to pay off my pockets. Half way through various other certificate programs. We shall discuss that when we meet.

Reference

Me- Because who else can tell you better about me than I?

There, now you know everything about me, lets meet and talk about some important things that I might have missed mentioning here and you can give me the joining papers. You can also share what would be my salary on joining without feeling much shy. I am quite friendly and adaptable person.

See Ya soon,

XYZ

[Got any other crazy ideas for a resume. Share in the comments and let’s have a good laugh together]