What is the colour of your love…?? 226

Love is an overrated word, because the path to reach love and to be with it, is something more challenging. They say it is easy to fall in love and if we talk of love in 2017, it happens every now and then. People love to eat chicken, no matter in the process, they are actually killing it…lolz.

But jokes apart, Love is a wonderful flavour of our lives. If your love is true, that awesome feeling is unmatchable.  Never ever we should try to be judgemental for any lover. As our taste towards our food, choice of our clothes, the colour of our love towards our soulmate is as desired by us.

So jotting down few colours of love here,

Pink…the first love –

Yes, we all had experienced it. That first encounter with someone that made us believe in love.  Some agree to first love and others rename it as infatuation or just attraction. But mind it that Pink Colored love is never off your mind in whole life. You somehow remember every bit of it.

Blue….the one-sided love-

Blue coloured because it is full of blues….lolz. Yea, one-sided love with somebody who is non-approachable to us or we are not able to express our love. The advantage of loving your love with him not knowing is more miraculous than expressing and loving.

Red…..the expressed love-

Once you express and propose your lover than nothing is more desired than his or her affirmation. Once you get yes, you feel on the top of the world. Nothing can match this feeling.

Purple…the never expressed love-

There was some feeling with him or her always. You were good buddies, but none of you ever expressed your love and left everything on your fate. No matter how long it is, even if you have parted ways now, even if married to different people, but you still love to stalk his or profile over social networking websites. wink wink.

Black….the ditching love –

When you get ditched from someone who was not as serious as you. You feel the pain of Devdas and tends to listen to all sad songs and gazals. Just to realize, life is long and good things are in future.

White….the sacrificing love-

when you knew you cannot be together or your lover can be super happy another way around. You sacrificed for your love, for his betterment. This is the purest form of love for sure.

So what is your colour … find out now!

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This little girl is afraid of lights…. WHY?? Watch the video! 232

A couple of days back I and my daughter witnessed an accident of a man with his child driving on a bike. Lot many people gathered at the spot and some helped the victims. I and my daughter stopped and helped the child who did not have any major wounds but was scarred here and there and was bleeding a little. The man too, but his back was hit badly to the road divider. Probably, I am afraid the inside damage may take some time to be revealed, though I hope he will be healed fully. The public started judging that the father must have lost control. Either he was driving with high speed or was on the phone while driving.

The truth was none of these reasons and the father had no mistake. The mistake was the car that sped away which drove in front of him while they were on the road in opposite direction. The father was at normal speed but when the car took a left turn and the high beam light blinded the father and he could not open his eyes. This made him lose control as he was caught suddenly. The car driver did not realize what he did or how he became a reason for someone to fall and so he just drove away. Luckily the father and daughter did not have any much damage, but what if something serious happened? Who is responsible for it?

Dear people, most vehicles have an option to dimmer your headlights. While driving in city limits keep your headlights dim and when in a darker and outskirts place you can make it higher. Many do not realize this and drive without even bothering about it. Please, do not be a reason of someone’s death knowingly or unknowingly. Do not take away a child’s father or mother just because you were too ignorant to check your headlights while driving. Here is a beautiful video that explains what I am talking. Share with your family and friends and spread the awareness. Because like you many just do not realize and once they know, I am sure people will be careful.

“I Fear a Relapse”, Says Deepika Padukone. 1379

The trailer of the most awaited Padmavati movie was released making us wait on a tiptoe for the movie to be released soon which is actually on December 1st, 2017 (See the trailer here). While on-screen Rani Padmini fights for her honor, the actress who plays the role, Deepika Padukone is fighting altogether a different battle in her real life.

While shooting for the Happy New Year movie, Deepika was fighting her inner battle of depression. Although she did not realize it then. Her mother who came to visit felt there was something wrong and requested Anna Chandy, a psychiatrist from Bengaluru to talk to her daughter. Though Deepika ignored it for a period of time, she finally recognized her problem and took steps to cure it. However, in a recent event, while talking about the Jauhar scene of Rani Padmini in the movie Padmavati, she revealed that she lives in a constant fear of a relapse of depression. She said “ I don’t think, I am completely over it. There is always a fear of relapse as that phase when it happened is the worst experience in my life”.

Since her opening up about her condition in public, there are numerous articles written about depression and there are plenty of suggestion available for someone who is looking for help. But, the truth is a lot many of the population who are suffering from depression do not know that they have it and they need help. Most of them try to think it is nothing but stress, fatigue and they are over-worked.

Like Deepika said in one of her interviews earlier while talking about her feelings during the time, being sad and being depressed are two different things. When someone is sad, they look sad, but when someone is depressed, most of the times they hide it. They try to behave normally while the feeling of emptiness keeps nagging at them. You do not have to be poor or have to lose something in life to be depressed. Sometimes the feeling of depression has no reason.

How to recognize the signs?

When someone is depressed, you may notice certain changes in them. Such as,

  • Less interested in daily activities
  • Loss of appetite and weight changes (can lose or gain)
  • being angry and irritable most of the times
  • less energised
  • self-loathing
  • reckless behaviors
  • Change in sleeping patterns

These are some of the changes we notice in a depressed person, not for few days but on a regular basis. If you spot these in someone or if you are facing it yourself, get help. There is no age or gender who are affected by depression.

Recognizing and understanding the symptoms of depression is the first step to finding a solution. Once you know, meet a good psychiatrist and get help. There is no shame in finding help to cure a mental illness. We meet our doctors for physical illness. In the same way, sometimes our mind also need that extra help too.

Do not, I repeat do not ever be afraid to ask for help!!! Because you might be surprised that there are so many good people around you who really care and want to help you.